purplestb:

ok. look.

its december. its almost christmas. you missed out on being skinny this winter—that’s fine.

it’s okay. you’re still pretty, okay? i love you.

but hear me out. admit you missed your goal to be at your ugw going into 2019. it feels like failure, it sucks, it’s embarassing to miss your goal by THIS much. but hey, it’s okay. i promise. you’ll be alright.

because look. june is a whole SEVEN MONTHS away. in seven months you can easily lose 50-70 lbs. summer bodies are made in the winter, you hear me?

repeat after me.

summer

bodies

are

made

in

the

winter.

take it slow, make it manageable. increase your cal limits to stop binges, drink your damn tea. don’t weigh yourself everyday—do it one a week, once every other week if you can. hit the gym, pop some squats and run some miles. do a couple sit ups. throw some dumbbells around. find some hobbies. get your zzzs, make sure you eat your shrubbery and get those vitamins. we’re trying to be skinny, not dead. drink the clear splashy stuff.

you’re going to be SO fucking skinny by june. when you drop your sweats and oversized shirts, you’re going to be so so pretty in your bikini and crop tops and short shorts.

when everyone’s embarassed at the beach that they stuffed themselves full this winter, they’ll be so fucking jealous of you.

it’s okay if you didn’t make it to your goal this year.

but don’t give up.

you have SEVEN months. you got this. you and me.

let’s fucking get it.

i love you. stay safe.

kafukafuura1917:

trans-mom:

people essentially calling anyone who has experienced sexual attraction/arousal “horny freaks” seem to lack the knowledge that the sexuality of women, the lgbt, poc, and etc has essentially been criminalized, shamed, etc for generations and they seem content just continuing that honored tradition.

and I love “female presenting nipples” jokes as much as yall, but I hope yall like them because they mock the use of transgender “accepting” language to push an old misogynistic standard unfairly put on women as a means to sound understanding to the plight of the transes, and not cuz, ya know, the idea of banning women’s nipples sounds like a joke in and of itself.

i was gonna make a post about this but people legitimately don’t seem to understand the reason there’s so many like explicitly sexual communities of LGBT people online is because regular, harmless expressions of LGBT sexuality are persecuted and face violent retribution even in contexts where expressions of cishet sexuality are seen as completely acceptable. people pushing this ridiculous idea that the internet needs to be a totally sexless space seem completely disconnected from why the LGBT internet is so sexual to begin with, and while, sure, there are a lot of issues that have arisen in these contexts, its got absolutely nothing to do with people being “horny freaks” and a lot more to do with mechanisms of abuse that also exist (in even greater proportion likely) among cishet people.